White men, Asian women

This is a followup to my previous post where I pointed out that interracial couples in which the man is white and the woman Asian are pretty common in the United States.

I guesstimate that about 20% of Asian women prefer to date white men. For example, I once dated an Asian woman who said that she only dates white men.

Some people try to explain why white men prefer Asian women, but I don't think that line if inquiry yields anything but mostly bogus generalizations. If white men have no preference for white or Asian women, but 20% of Asian women have a clear preference for white men, then that's all that's needed to explain the mixed race couples.

I noted in my last post that Asian women who like white men often have a preference for men who are educated, introverted, and have stable careers (often in IT). White women don't have a preference for this type of man, so a man who fits this category will have better luck with Asian women and this is probably the real reason for why many white men are involved in an interracial relationships.

Asian men are hurt the most by interracial dating. Very few white women are interested in dating Asian men, and with 20% of Asian women not interested in them either, many Asian men in the United States are doomed to bachelorhood.

Comments

[PuNjAbI*LuVvEr*C]

This is one sick cunt. Your a poof taint ya? Everyone here knows it cuz all U go on about is wanting to fuck whitemen. Ur problem taint envy for a white woman because all ur lil chink cunts ar fuckin white, black, brown men. Wot it really is about is about wanting a white man!
U is gay my son! Gay as a broadway toon!

What a lame-ass gook.

[rightbythenuts]

http://asianmenwhitewomen.thumblogger.com

Asian men having sex with white women.

[rightbythenuts]

duh I going to post web site about asian men with 2 inchers PAYING white woman for sex on film and that makes them love us.
bet them asians pay twice as much for sex as white or black guys ROFL LOSER

[Christopher]

Hope you are happy today?

Some people were interested in the statistics. I'm not allowed to cite my sources ... but:

**in the US only 6% of people are involved in ongoing romantic interracial relationships**

The number of such relationships is something like:

BlackGuy+WhiteGal 69 000
WhiteGuy+AsianGal 60 000
AsianGuy+WhiteGal 18 000
WhiteGuy+BlackGal 11 000
AsianGuy+BlackGal 4 500
BlackGuy+AsianGal 4 000

Wow!! a factor of 5 for Black-White and a factor of 3 for Asian-White!

I had several girlfriends from Europe, Vietnam, Thailand, Laos and China, and some people think I've been very lucky, but I still don't feel good and haven't found someone to settle down with - if you're interested please let me know :)

Don't give up on what you REALLY want because of statistics! Your future is what YOU create. People within any race are REALLY different. Just meet someone you like who also likes you and accept that some people just won't like you, like some people will probably not like this message :P lol

[Asian Guy In Asia]

Being an asian guy in asia I view this discussions as down right pathetic. Seriously when does any good relationships are first defined by what bloody color is your skin. To have skin colors defined a relationship then I think down the line the relationship must really have a lot of problems.

And btw, Asian men do not expect their wives to bore them sons anymore nor do they expect their wives to be submissive. Many asian men today treats their partners as equals.

The one thing that I am proud being an asian is that when relationships have problems especially between husband and wives, we work it out because family comes first.

In asia, the one reason why asian men will not prefer a caucasian or most asian women will not prefer a caucasian is because (i may be wrong in this but this is the impressin we have here):

a. Divorce is a common thing in western country and too often the easy way out when things dont go right in a marriage institution. Caucasian couples don't think or rather not willing to sacrifice to work it out in the interest of their children. You will find most children grows up in a single parent environment in the west than in asia.

b. Most caucasian men fucks around too often and selfish for their own needs. If you want guys that dont fuck around before or after marriage, then chances are an asian guy will fit that bill. It's not that we are impotent, its a matter that we respect the person we love so we like to keep fucking strictly to wives only.

c. Most asians (men and female) values relationships first based on longer lasting qualities such as communication, being able to bear it out together, patience, and family values compatibility before sex, or how damn good you are on bed or how long is your dick or big boobs you have etc. Sex is fun but in asia certainly not that high a priority consideration when it comes to starting a family with someone you love.

End

[Asian Guy In Asia]

Being an asian guy in asia I view this discussions as down right pathetic. Seriously when does any good relationships are first defined by what bloody color is your skin. To have skin colors defined a relationship then I think down the line the relationship must really have a lot of problems.

And btw, Asian men do not expect their wives to bore them sons anymore nor do they expect their wives to be submissive. Many asian men today treats their partners as equals.

The one thing that I am proud being an asian is that when relationships have problems especially between husband and wives, we work it out because family comes first.

In asia, the one reason why asian men will not prefer a caucasian or most asian women will not prefer a caucasian is because (i may be wrong in this but this is the impressin we have here):

a. Divorce is a common thing in western country and too often the easy way out when things dont go right in a marriage institution. Caucasian couples don't think or rather not willing to sacrifice to work it out in the interest of their children. You will find most children grows up in a single parent environment in the west than in asia.

b. Most caucasian men fucks around too often and selfish for their own needs. If you want guys that dont fuck around before or after marriage, then chances are an asian guy will fit that bill. It's not that we are impotent, its a matter that we respect the person we love so we like to keep fucking strictly to wives only.

c. Most asians (men and female) values relationships first based on longer lasting qualities such as communication, being able to bear it out together, patience, and family values compatibility before sex, or how damn good you are on bed or how long is your dick or big boobs you have etc. Sex is fun but in asia certainly not that high a priority consideration when it comes to starting a family with someone you love.

d. Most asian men and women tend to remember that being men and women we are sons and daughters of our parents. And certainly we dont want other men or women to be fucking our son and daughters just for fun. Imagine a guy you meet jsut come fuck your daughter you so loved - jsut for the fun of it or in the name that 'both are having fun' - i mean do westerners treat themselves and their beloved like a piece of commodity??? We asians certainly dont and we wont do the same thing to other people.

End

Just think of this site as being a reality check. I'm a pretty experienced guy when it comes to women and a lot of 'your' women are shunning your 'Asian values' to have sex with white men. Sorry mister but maybe you ought to step out of your country and see what's happening outside.

[brians]

whoever said (goldenhorde) that asian men shouldnt even be called men becasue they look like little boys I totally disagree cause if they look like little boys the asian women and i have always thought this look like little girls. cause they have little girl bodies with big heads or just little girl faces. White men are just perverted and nasty cause "they want them cause they are so little and have little insides" white men that like little asian women should just call themselves child molesters!

[American white guy currently in Amerikkka]

Greetings,

I have lived in several cities in mainland China, and I have studied and worked in Hong Kong, Singapore and Bangkok. I view Asians men as highly competitive and attractive. People who live away from the coasts in the US tend towards the insular in their evaluations of the cultural norms of eastern Asians.

I do like Chinese and other eastern Asian women. This is mainly the result of being a highly introverted and studious male from the suburbs of the United States. Although women everywhere tend to prefer socially adept men, I think Chinese women are more prone to view well-rounded intellectual prowess as a social advantage, and overconfidence as an impediment.

Chinese girls are also more relationship oriented. Perhaps because of this, they are more balanced and less prone to extremes.

I have been asked by Chinese girls if I like Chinese girls because they are more physically attractive. Actually I like the looks of lots of different races, and I have tried whites, Africans, and S. Asians. But I feel more emotionally attracted to eastern Asian women.

[dianne]

http://www.ohjjl.com

Tell me brians what are you then..? if you r asian you r a child and if you r white you r a child molester... perhaps you iz black?

[Jiang]

It's been a while since I have posted comments on this fourm, and again I am dissaponited. PEOPLE JUST TALK NICE, NO ATTACKS.

Let this fourm stick to Asian-White relationship topic no matter AM/WF or WM/AF. Just stick to topic and not personal attack. I AM A HUGE FAN OF THIS FOURM.

AFTER ALL, I LIKE WHITE GIRLS MUCH MORE THAN ASIAN GIRLS.

[Jiang]

Here is something interesting to READ.

Some funny things that I ve observed since I came to the US. Want to share some good laughs with you.

Interracial scenarios in the US:

For white men: Interracial relationships mean dating mostly black women. Dating Asian women is not considered interracial since white men consider asian women white (however asian men are still considered asian by white men), or it is an acceptable interracial relationship.

For white women: No interracial relationships are acceptable in white men's eyes. White women are expected to date white men only.

For Asian women: Love is color blind. Oh well...Black men, hispanic men, indian men or non-white men, don't really take it literally. We only date white men. You guys have better odds with other women.

For Asian men: Need to convince their sisters first that they are just as attractive as white men, even though there are thousands of non-Asian women waiting for them to make their first moves.

For Black men: Interracial relationships mean dating mostly blonde white women of Anglo/Nordic ancestry. If they can't get any, they will try brunettes, then redheads, then Latin women of European ancestry, then Hispanic women, and finally Asian women.

For Black women: Interracial relationships mean dating mostly white men, but they don't have time for that b/c they are busy keeping blonde-chasing black men from running over them.

For Hispanic men: They are already mixed with all kinds of blood. Any relationships are interracial.

For Hispanic women: see above.

[PrincessJin]

"For white men: Interracial relationships mean dating mostly black women. Dating Asian women is not considered interracial since white men consider asian women white (however asian men are still considered asian by white men), or it is an acceptable interracial relationship." LOL! If they consider Asian women "white" then why do they have Asian preferences? LOL. I've never heard ANY American calling ANY Asian "white."

[DD]

hello, just want to make sure i post something

[DD]

Hi everybody, i just want to drop by and share with everyone my comments and my thoughts about interracial dating and interracial marriage. i grew up in new york and i see a lot of asian women dates white men. no offense, i am not against when an asian girl date white man, but i am angry when an asian girl started to say that she only date white man because asian guys are all nerds and geeks. i mean you can choose whoever you want to be with, but please don't diss asian guy like that, because your father is asian man who raised you ! i hate when an asian girl especially the one who act white or black or whatever and tell people that they don't like asian guy because of this and that. those asian girls have serious issues. another comment i have to made is that when i was young, the media did not portrays any asian men on television, and all i see is caucasian only so of course i was somewhat brained wash by media that only caucasian is good and other minorities are no good. now, after going through the whole identity cris, i realized that people still will consider you asian whether you like it or not so i learned to accept my own ethnicity and proud to be myself and love my asian men to death. but i do have to say that asian men are too introvert and shy. they never approach to the girls they like because i know that their mother has do so much for them and they are being used to with the fact that asian woman should treat them like a king. that is why asian woman are leaving asian men because of that and also because of the physically appearance. but asian men and asian women should come together and learn more about one another's needs. that is all i need to say , and i don't date white man because i don't find them attractive, they only want to date asian girl because of curiousity or popularity and they like them in bed. that is all they want, no offense, but it is true.

Dating has become very racist these days it’s so sad.

We obviously have a social problem where there is racism, stereotypes and pop mainstream media to dictate our desires, interests, tastes and sex life and even love relationships.

I don’t blame asian men getting angry when they are marginalized by these racist dating standards in western countries.

One day people will become more educated and aware on this matter and learn to question themselves before their superficiality takes over.

[Russian Girls]

Thanks for the information on topics.I was excited for this article.
Thank you again.

[Shulin@UCLA]

This form is finially dead, it is so crazy. Everyone is racist and attacks each other with no respect because they hide behind computer!!! PATHIATIC!!!!!

I am Asian (Chinese) and I really consider going back to China and leave this mess to you guys!!!

[b0b]

it's more than 20% atleast half asian women born in western marry white men. and atleast 70% will date a white man at least once. look it up.

[peter]

this asian women,white men or non asian men inetteracial realtionship had always been a good topic to discuss for me, usually i think it's not a problem, but the things really bothers me are why does this issue had become so majority? does it mean all asian men are not worth to datae for?does that mean all white men are best to date with. The worst thing is some asian women doesn't give one chance to asian men and claim they only date white men, and some asian women date white men and married them to elevate themselve or to bring themselve to a higher value in the society. Once they married a white men, they look down on asian people and being unfriendly. I don't disagree on having a mix baby but am not encouraging on mix baby in this world, to be honest, you cannot tell how much a pure 100% white baby is in the world by just looking at them beause many white people are mixed (canandian, american,austrilia, poland ,irish,scottland,switzeland,etc.)these day.Probably the white men that the asian women dating is already a mix. i think in today's world, a 100% original born baby from one ethnicy is more value due to mix baby is all over the world now.

[Peter]

This article is really absurd and biased...

[denialasianwomen]

I find it funny how Asians always comes with the excuse White think of Asians as whites lol.No Whites do not think of Asians as Whites,but they do know that Asians worship whites.Whites especially accept because they you as a submissive pet.They have negroes and Hispanics to hate,so Asians go under the radar.Australian Whites or Russians don't have the same love for Asians.I guess whites don't see you as Whites.It's a small percentage of White men who strictly preferred Asian women.There more of a higher percentage of Asian women who preferred strictly White men.The problem is Asians have a problem admitting to their obsession with Whiteness.It's the same in the Gay community where Asian gay men are seeking only White gay men.White men goes for Asian women because they have a higher chance of not being rejected by Asian women.White men who date Asian women tend to day non-Asian women,White,Black,Latina,Indian etc...Where you will the Asian woman who will proudly declared how she only dates White men.Hell many of these White men are chasing on their Asian wives/girlfriends,sometimes with non-Asian women.What does that tell you? Asian women are the ones with the White men fetish but they can't admit to it.White men are only playing into a numbers game here.

Btw here's the article and I post this paragraph especially because I thought it was interesting how you can see Asian women are mainly the ones with the fetish.

Columbia study
In 2007 the economist Ray Fisman, in a two-year study he co-authored on dating preferences among Columbia University students, did not find evidence of a general preference among white men for Asian women. Furthermore, the study found that there is a significantly higher pairing of white men with East Asian women simply because East Asian women discriminate racially against black and hispanic men. As quoted on Slate.com, and also reported in the Washington Post [1] and The Review of Economic Studies [2] (a publication of the London School of Economics and Political Science [3] ):[19]

“ We found no evidence of the stereotype of a white male preference for East Asian women. However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). As a result, the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating—but because of the women's neutrality, not the men's pronounced preference. Men don't seem to discriminate based on race when it comes to dating. A woman's race had no effect on the men's choices. ”

This study was conducted over two years by psychologists Sheena Iyengar and Itamar Simonson, and economists Fisman and Emir Kamenica — all of Columbia University. They took data from "thousands of decisions made by more than 400 daters from Columbia University's various graduate and professional schools."[19]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User:Uncle_G/Preference_for_Asian_women_by_non-Asian_men

Here's a study that was conducted on the issues

[denialasianwomen]

Oh btw the 1800s Asians were heavily discriminate against.Asian women were not allowed sometimes to immigrate to America,because they were seen as prostitutes.The funny thing we all know Asians worship whiteness but Asians are the only ones in denial about the issue.